GA in the local News …

August 30th, 2010

Bellingham nonprofit marks $1 million giving milestone

DAVE GALLAGHER of THE BELLINGHAM HERALD

A Bellingham nonprofit reached a significant milestone and also received a bit of unexpected help.

Giving Anonymously, which assists people in helping others without revealing their identity, recently passed the $1 million mark in gifts sent out.

The three-year-old organization will take a donation from someone who doesn’t want to be identified and send it to the recipient. Through the organization, the recipient can send a thank-you message to the donor.

Lionel Thompson, who founded the organization with his wife, Misha, said they’ve been sending out $30,000 to $50,000 a month in gifts to recipients across the country. Most gifts are in the $500 range and typically go toward issues more people are dealing with in today’s economy – such as helping someone pay the rent, medical expenses or other bills.

“We hope we’ve created a way people can give when they could not have otherwise,” Thompson said.

The Thompsons came up with the idea after experiencing generosity from their neighbors and friends following their move to Sudden Valley in 2002. Soon after they moved, a family health issue developed and those neighbors helped with money and food donations until they could get back on their feet.

While they knew those gifts were from the heart, there was the slight awkwardness about accepting help from people they knew. They believe Giving Anonymously can assist people who want to help someone else without that awkwardness.

The organization and the Thompsons recently received a bit of help themselves. Someone recently made an anonymous, unsolicited $1,000 donation to help cover the organization’s overhead costs. (The organization operates through volunteers and the Thompsons don’t take a salary for the work).

The Thompsons also received a similar donation from the donor.

While the gifts have helped keep things operating, Misha Thompson said it’s been hearing the stories of those being helped that really keep the organization going.

“The greatest thing we need to keep GA going is just for people to give anonymously to their friends and neighbors,” she said in an e-mail. “And we are so thankful to live in this beautiful community that has done just that.”

For details about the organization, visit givinganon.org.

Reach DAVE GALLAGHER at dave.gallagher@bellinghamherald.com or call 715-2269. Visit his business blog online at blogs.bellinghamherald.com/business or get updates on Twitter at twitter.com/BhamHeraldBiz.

Something Wonderful…

August 18th, 2010

Annie wrote the following on her blog Living With CML (used with permission):

“A few months ago I started noticing this organization and did some reading up on them. What a wonderful idea! Click on the picture to go to their site and see for yourself, but I am going to tell you a little bit about them anyway.

Giving Anonymously“This is an idea that I seriously wish I had thought of first – one that makes me smile every time I think of them or see their name. What do they do? You know how sometimes you want to help someone out but you know that its going to mess with your friendship or relationship or just the ease you have with each other, if you try to give them some financial help? Well, this company will send that money to them and not let on that its you that sent it. Yes…….. Giving Anonymously! And when the person gets their gift, they are given a phone number to call where they can thank you (still anonymous) and let you know that they have received your gift.

“I have read their website and the news reports and all and they sound like an incredible group of people! In a world half crazy, I think this is one of the nicest things I have read about in a very long time..

“So – click on the picture above, go and read all about it and if you know anyone that can do with a lovely surprise – go for it! And then spread the word….. let others know how they can make a difference in a lovely way and make someone else smile a bit longer.”

Thank you Annie!!

Motivations Matter

July 16th, 2010

“The vocation of every man and woman is to serve other people.” ~ Leo Tolstoy

Greatness can often be determined by how well any one entity serves another. Be it as a parent, business, charity, church, government or nation, service is at the heart of legacy.

The economic boom was on in the early 1990s, and I was in downtown Auckland, New Zealand contemplating what makes five-star hotels better than others. My wife and I like to seek out these special hotels around the world, often popping in for a drink and to stare at the rich decorations and soak up the plush and sometimes historical atmosphere. Our conversations often come back around to what really makes a five-star hotel worth its five stars.

It’s easy to fall for just the decadence as the reason for a high rating, but in truth, a five-star hotel gets its rating for how well its visitors feel served. The time, knowledge and experience invested to create this type of facility are only successful by how well they serve. But beyond exotic exteriors service is also a motivation. Visitors can tell if their purse matters more than even they do.

Many years ago a fellow student asked me for help with his accounting. As international students pursuing undergraduate degrees, we connected over shared former experiences in Africa and a mutual interest in government. As I tried to help him, he acted completely disinterested. I couldn’t tell why until another well-dressed guy came up to us while we were studying. Together they proceeded to try to convince me to sign up for a multi-level marketing business. When I said no, the guy to whom I’d offered help showed no interest in friendship. His motivation in approaching me with kindness was actually for personal profit.

Motivation marks us as human beings like a chameleon changes colors to suit its surroundings. We can often tell if kindness, friendship and service are being offered as a gift or dangling carrot.

A core tenant of our values today says: “The more convincing customer care can be at pretending it values you, the customer, rather than your wallet, the more successful it will be.” But imagine if you will, individuals and organizations serving each other from the heart with genuine care and love for others. As our economy breaks down deeper and scams and frauds are exposed, why not let it expose our own fraud and how we’ve turned kindness and care at all levels into economic transactions?

Giving Anonymously is an expression of this imagined place. It’s a simple tool that protects peoples’ motivation to give and to be given to. It exposes people to the incredible joy there is in giving without gaining anything in return. But even if we do gain, let it be the fruit of our service rather than the reason for our service.

by Lionel Thompson

One of the Great Stories …

May 17th, 2010

Atlanta FloodsWe don’t always get to hear why people give through Giving Anonymously. There have been times, however, where recipients of gifts have told us what’s going on in their lives. The following quote is from a recipient named Brett Belcastro who suffered through personal tragedy and was helped through friends and strangers giving to them through Giving Anonymously.

“During the Atlanta-area flooding in September 2009, our family’s house was flooded with 4 feet of water. We were immediately displaced from our home with no idea when we would be able to return. We found a temporary home for our dog and cat but we (including our two-year-old son) had no idea where we would stay or what we would do. Thankfully, friends of ours let us stay at their home for a week and then another friend offered his house to us while he was out of town for a month. And right around then was when the amazingly generous donations from Giving Anonymously started pouring in!! Due to social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter and our brief appearances on the news, people from all over the country became aware of our situation and we started receiving donations – from friends to strangers. Without this help, there is no way we would have been able to return to our home 5 weeks after the flood and rebuild our lives so quickly. No words could ever express our infinite gratitude to all of these people. It is their generosity that gave us the strength and positivity to persevere. We can only hope to pay it forward to each and every person who reached out to us during our time of need.”

Photo of Atlanta Flood by PHIL SKINNER, pskinner@ajc.com

For Your Generosity to Us…

April 13th, 2010

Lionel ThompsonTo date Giving Anonymously (GA) has sent out just under $860,000 in gifts to 1900 individuals and families. Most of these gifts went to recipients living in the USA but some were sent to countries in Europe, South America, and Southeast Asia.

As we’ve facilitated generosity for others, many have given generously to GA as well. GA has been funded solely by the donations given to GA while donors process gifts to their friends and family on our site. These donations have gone to pay for the credit card processing fees and other operational costs.*

In addition to these donations others have given to GA in other ways. Big Fresh Media has donated their time and expertise to develop and build out our website. The Muljat Group generously discounts our office space rent each month. A group of students drive 35 minutes from Blaine High School each Friday to clean our office building. Lettered Streets Coffee House gives us a free supply of coffee for our volunteers and provides a place for us to have meetings. As we have no paid staff, our volunteers give of their time and energy as often as they can to make phone calls and process gifts.

As the director of GA I want to say thank you to all of you. Thank you for giving generously to others around you in need and allowing GA to facilitate your kindness to others. Thank you to all of you who give to GA while processing gifts on our site. Your generosity has helped us stay open. Thank you to all of you who have given to GA in practical and tangible ways. Your friendship, time, skills and practical expressions of generosity have meant the world to us.

Thank you!

*We are in the process of putting all of our financials and tax returns on our website. They’ll be at the bottom of our homepage under a “Financial” link.

Empowerment

January 25th, 2010

by Sarah Day

photo by Pete Day

I sat in my way-too-comfy-you-can-almost-never-get-out-of-it purple chair this morning and read this article by Naomi Klein titled, “Revisiting the Shock Doctrine in the Wake of Haiti Disaster.”  The below paragraph grabbed my attention.

“…participants say they are not just repairing buildings but healing themselves. It makes perfect sense. The universal experience of living through a great shock is the feeling of being completely powerless: in the face of awesome forces, parents lose the ability to save their children, spouses are separated, homes-places of protection-become death traps. The best way to recover from helplessness turns out to be helping-having the right to be part of a communal recovery.”

And it made me think of the word empowerment.

Wikipedia says empowerment is “increasing the spiritual, political, social or economic strength of individuals and communities.  It often involves the empowered developing confidence in their own capacities.”

One definition that I particularly like, found here, is “the breaking of destructive or non productive cycles and systems that prevent people from achieving the fullness of their potential.”

When we empower, we give someone ability.  We give a community tools.  We educate.  But it’s easy to steal someones ability by doing the job done ourselves.  It’s tempting, perhaps, to build the home instead of giving the tools for building.  And it’s easy to switch from educating to deciding for someone.

How can we empower by what we give, and not just patch, bandage, or worse yet, steal from freedom or recovery?  There are many ways to empower and many currencies with which we can give.  That’s my hope when I give of my time, energy and resources—to release strength in people, rather than to make them feel victimized or helpless.  And it is our aim at Giving Anonymously, to facilitate this kind of giving.  What do you think?  Have you been empowered in a unique way by someone you know?  Have you felt the thrill of releasing someones potential and strength?  We’d welcome your thoughts on this topic!

{image via Pete Day Photography}

Faces of GA

January 18th, 2010

by Sarah Day

Picture 15

A few questions that we’ve received lately have inspired this post.  Thank you everyone for your comments and questions–we love sharing the how and the why of Giving Anonymously!

One element of our organization, our “niche” you could say, is to be a tool through which you can be your own anonymous charity, seeing the need of those in your community and networks, and being active and generous in supporting those needs.  We believe that YOU really do the best job of spotting the needs of those around you.  We want to empower you to have your ear to the ground, to be an active and aware member of your community, and to experience the joy that comes from meeting the needs or desires of those around you.  Our motto, as some of you already know, is, “we’re not the charity, YOU ARE.”

Another element, which people hear and see less of, is our Needs Department.  Our team receives requests for help on a daily basis, and are often ear to some of the most dire needs that people are experiencing.  It’s humbling to hear thousands of requests from people all over North America (and beyond as well) to help them pull through painful circumstances.  Every once in a while, we receive donations that are undesignated, from people who’ve asked us to give it to someone we know is in need.  When that happens, we absolutely love having the ability to not only listen to people express their needs, but also pass along financial help.  If you’d like to join us in meeting these needs, you can click here.

And a third element or our organization is something we’ll be launching over the coming two weeks!  We’ll be announcing another tool that we’ve developed to help you give, so stay tuned for more.

Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day, everyone!

The Good News And Not-So-Good News

January 11th, 2010

Giving Anonymously has been informed that we did not get enough votes to win the MSN Butterfly contest. They will be announcing later on today who did win. We want to go ahead and say now, though,  how very much it meant to us that so many of you voted. Thank you so much for spreading the word and supporting us in the amazing ways you did!

We so wish we could be giving a check to our local Women and Children’s Shelter, but we are also proud to be associated with all the beautiful things the other nominees for the award are doing.

The good news is the piece that was just written up in the January 8th edition of Women’s World, and that is on the shelves right now, is a very positive endorsement to us and we hope to be able to process many more gifts because of it. We encourage you to pick up a copy and share it with those you know.

Here’s to many more wonderful things ahead!

Thank you, again.

The Giving Anonymously Staff and Volunteers

close up

New Year, “New” Office

January 3rd, 2010

by Misha Thompson

While our staff and volunteers have been taking a much needed break this last week, Lionel and I have been spiffing up the office trying to make it a bit cozier for all the folks who work so hard at getting all the gifts out the door.

The last four months (just over eighteen weeks to be exact) we have moved offices twice already and this last move never really left us time to get settled in…let alone unpack. So that is what we did!

A lot of the things we hung up and used were wedding gifts to Lionel and I almost ten years ago and some other things around the office were given to us by generous friends or local business folks. We painted some big canvases and put up some of our favourites quotes, we brought in a family heirloom table that is rumoured to be a few hundred years old to warm things up and we put out a few organizational touches to make the ‘envelope stuffing station’ run a lot smoother.

envelope stuffing station

This is the table that – if you send or receive a gift through Giving Anonymously - the address and details will get checked, double checked and checked again – and then have an actual check stuffed into it and it will get sealed and it will be sorted and sent out from here.

more space to get mail ready

That water is just to keep us going!

sarah's desk

If you happen to talk to Sarah, this is most likely where she would be sitting.

pete's desk

Or if you happen to work with Pete, this is one of our favourite quotes he may be sitting under.

director's desk

And this is where Lionel sits, under a quote that means a lot to us.

“Life is an exciting business and most exciting when it is lived for others.” ~ Helen Keller

The Best Phone Call Ever

December 21st, 2009
image via telephoneart.comby Sarah Day

 

 

 Giving Anonymously:  Hi, my name is Sarah, I’m calling from an organization called Giving Anonymously.  Is Steve there?

Hesitant Woman:  Um…what organization?  Oh, yeah, Steve is here.

[shuffling sounds and woman calls out in the background, "Steve! Phone!"]

Steve:  This is Steve.

Giving Anonymously:  Hi Steve, my name is Sarah and I’m calling from a non-profit organization called Giving Anonymously. 

Steve:  [sounding irritated] Oh, no thanks, I don’t want it.

GA:  [smiling and quickly interjecting] Steve, I’m actually not selling anything.  This is going to sound strange, but our organization let’s people give money to their friends or family while remaining completely anonymous. 

[At this point Steve sounds almost more skeptical so I charge on trying to convince him]

GA:  We have a website where someone that you know made out a virtual check to you.  I’m just calling to let you know that we’ll be mailing that check to you and to make sure we send it to the right address. 

Steve:  [still doubting but doesn't sound like he's going to hang up on me anymore] Um…this is…interesting…

GA:  [I laugh out loud] Yes, it is a little hard to believe, I know.  We encourage you to go to our website givinganon.org and make sure we’re legitimate.  Check out our press tab and see what the New York Times has written or what NBC Nightly News has said.

Steve:  Um, ok.  [pause and Steve sighs audibly]  Wow.

[At this point in the conversation I always get so excited.  The recipient starts to believe what they're hearing and it's always incredible to get to listen to their first reactions as the idea sinks in.] 

GA:  So Steve, with your permission, I’ll read to you the address that your secret donor gave us so we can make sure to send the check to the right place.

Steve:  ok, what do you have?

GA:  [I read the address]

Steve:  Yes, that’s correct.  But I still don’t understand…If this is a scam…

GA:  I understand this sounds really unusual, and you’re absolutely right to be skeptical.  It actually is for real though — someone you know just wants you to have this gift with no strings attached, no expectation of return, no awkward feelings between the two of you.

Steve:  Well, who is it?

GA:  I’m sorry Steve, that’s the only thing I can’t tell you.  We promise our donors that we’ll keep their identity secret.

Steve:  Well, what do I have to do?

GA:  When you get the check in the mail, it will come with a phone number for you to call and leave a thank you message for your secret donor.  We’ll send that message to them so they know we followed through on our end and sent you their money.

Steve:  [starts to cry on the phone] It’s just that no one has ever done something like this for me before!

GA:  [I'm inspired even more at this point] I’m so glad that someone cares so much for you and has done this for you.  Are you willing to accept this gift?

Steve:  [still sniffling] Yes.

GA:  Great.  Well, it will be sent in the mail to you in the coming 2 business days.  Be looking for it in the mail.  Merry Christmas Steve.

Steve:  Thanks.  Merry Christmas to you, too.

 

Note: This was a real conversation but the names have been changed. 

{Image via telephoneart.com}